Monday, October 25, 2021

One of Life's Unexpected Gifts

 It all started here. Finding an afghan that my grandmother crocheted for my mother back in the 1970's. She made these for pretty much everyone in the family. I got mine when I was about 17 and managed to lose it somewhere in my travels.



My grandmother passed away many years ago and I have been searching for this pattern ever since I lost it...for almost 40 years!

I recently came across the afghan while going through some of my mothers things and grabbed it quicker than you can snatch a baby away from a harmful situation. It was in a plastic zipped up bag along with a quilt that I had made for her several years ago, I threw the bag in my truck and took it home, tossed it onto the dining room floor happy and content. 

That night I continued in my quest of learning to crochet a "new to me" stitch. It was tedious and not coming to me as quickly as I would have like but nothing good comes without hard work, right?

The next morning I decided to take the afghan out of the bag, get a closer look and see if I could figure out how it was made. I had lived in guilt long enough after losing the one my gran had made me and was eager to decode the secret evasive pattern.  

I could scarcely believe what I was seeing. It just couldn't be! It looked like it but surely not. No. That was just absurd. I ran into the living room and gathered up the meager practice piece I had been crocheting the night before and laid it across my grans afghan. The pattern was different but the stitch looked the same. I literally could not believe my eyes. I took a photo and sent it to my sister for verification. My gran had stitched hers with years of precision and mine was a bit sloppy but I'll be jiggered if it wasn't the exact same stitch!



I sent pictures of the front and the back because I just could not believe it. Had I actually stumbled on something that I had been searching for for 40 some odd years?



My eyes filled with tears at the irony of it all. The joy that I not only found the pattern but I had found an original blanket that she had made and to the amazing coincidence that I had been trying to learn the very stitches that it contained. Tears rolled down my chubby cheeks as I began to sob.

I sat down with a pad and a pencil and began to count stitches and patterns and repeats. Not an easy task as I am a beginner at the art of crochet but I was determined! After about 2 hours and feeling satisfied it dawned on me that I could actually ask a question on Facebook in one of my crochet groups along with a picture to see if anyone knew anything about the pattern. If I had only thought of it earlier I would have saved myself some time but also I would have lost the warmth I felt in my heart as it filled with the love I felt as I deconstructed grandmas precious gift.

I did ask the question and got several responses within minutes. Apparently it is called the Navajo Diamond. I quickly scanned all modes of cyberspace to find pictures and patterns but in the end ended up using my own handwritten notes. There were a few mistakes in my initial count but my first project, a baby blanket for a friend turned out to be rather successful and a great learning project.




You just never know when life is going to give you a truly unexpected gift. 💖




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